He doesnt drink - doesnt gamble. Is rational and sensible. Hard working - intelligent. He doesnt smoke. He know to play guitar - He likes to watch movies. Very friendly in nature. A likable person.
She is friendly - doesnt drink or smoke. Has no bad habits - looks beautiful. She is smart and caring. She never hurt people. She sings and draws well.
They have known each other for 5 years now. They talk with each other almost every other day. They understand each other. They like each other.
When he get angry - she calms him.
When she get dissappointed - he peps her up.
When they talk to each other - they are happiest.
They only want to see each other happy.
Neither has a mental problem - physical problem or any major health issue.
OOOOOOooooooohhhhh! but sorry your castes dont match :(
Guess this is how god made you - different and completely incompatible - how can you be happy with each other. This is a sin - and you want us also to be happy about it. Child you are making a mistake - a huge mistake. I dont consent to you seeing each other.
And dont forget child : I love you and am only concerned about your happiness.
S - Sadistic and
O - Oraganised
C - Criminalisation of
I - Innocent
E - Emotions to
T - Terrorize the
Y - Youth
PS - I am just about to explode with profanity at the irrationality of such parents. But that doesnt achieve anything does it. The only thing that needs to be done is to make them understand - with patience - a LOT LOT LOT of it. In this case they are worst than children. So children have to grow up to become understanding parents.
PS1 - Typical Indian society scenario ....... very very sad.
indeed, a very disappointing situation. it's surprising how our heroes, our idols suddenly turn completely immune to rationale when their kids find their life-partners on their own. my personal evaluation is that they fear they are losing control over our lives. it's ironical though...on the one hand, they want us to get married, which is the most mature thing we'd do in our lives, and still, they are adamant in believing that we are too immature to take that decision on our own.
ReplyDeletehang in their my friend, perseverance and persistence can go a long way. all the best :)